One of my mottoes is:
Have what you love; use what you have.
Anything that doesn’t serve you, doesn’t earn a place in your life.
But an obstacle to decluttering that many people face is deciding what to do with the stuff they get rid of.
Unfortunately, this dilemma can be so confusing that some people get completely immobilized – they end up unable to part with their stuff because they can’t decide where it should go.
Don’t let confusion stop you from releasing unloved, unused things from your home and your life.
Instead, use this guide.
1. When To Sell Your Clutter
If it’s worth good money, you should sell it, right?
Well, not necessarily.
When you’re decluttering, only allocate something to the ‘Sell’ pile if:
1. It’s worth more than it would cost to organize the sale (list online, hold a garage sale, etc), and
2. You can be bothered to do the work to organize the sale.
The second point is crucial. If you know you’re unlikely to ever get around to doing what’s needed to sell your items, then save yourself time and guilt and don’t tell yourself you’ll sell.
If you’re looking for ways to make cash, then that’s a different matter. But if your top priority is to declutter your home and your life, then don’t create unnecessary hurdles. Skip the ‘Sell’ pile.
2. When To Donate Your Clutter
You should donate everything you can, shouldn’t you?
Again, not so simple.
Everyone has their own sense of what’s donate-able. I have a pretty high threshold for donation and will only give stuff to charity that:
- Looks appealing – nothing tatty, rusty, etc
- Is in working condition – nothing in need of repair
- Is decent quality – nothing that’s basically junk.
I figure that donating questionable stuff only makes more work for the charity, so I toss anything that doesn’t meet these criteria.
You may be more or less strict with your standards. But if in doubt, throw it out!
Only allocate something to the ‘Donate’ pile if:
- It’s in good condition and/or
- It’s sell-worthy, but you can’t be bothered to sell it.
3. When To Throw Away Your Clutter
If you’re a seasoned declutterer, then by all means sell or donate your heart out. And if it doesn’t meet selling or donating standards, then toss it.
But what if you simply can’t decide?
If you’re fighting years of hoarding, or deep-seated procrastination, or a profound sense of overwhelm, then don’t let indecision about what to sell or donate stop you from clearing the clutter.
Instead, simply put everything into a bag and let it go.
Yes you’re wasting it, but having it in your home when you don’t love or use it is wasting it too, and it’s also costing you stress and clutter and quite possibly happiness.
Now let me be clear: I’m not suggesting you throw stuff away out of laziness or disregard for landfills, or cluelessness about poverty. If you can navigate these issues then I think you should.
But if you’re in such a state that you need to start somewhere very simple (and many people are; we all get overwhelmed sometimes), then I think it’s okay to start where you are and do what you can.
Once you begin the decluttering habit, you’ll gain confidence and can donate many future bags to worthy causes. But until you make a start, your stuff isn’t doing anyone any good.
Declutter Clinic Summary
To sum up:
Sell it if:
- It’s worth more than the cost of selling and
- You’re motivated enough to organize the sale.
Donate it if:
- It’s in good condition and
- The question of donating versing tossing won’t immobilize you.
For everything else, throw it away!
And enjoy the time, space, and mental clarity you’ll gain.
Note: This article originally appeared in my Get Organized Newsletter. It has updated in September 2017 with the video.
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Decluttering is important if you want to make a fast home sale. No one wants to buy a home that is messy. In order to achieve a fast sale, you should consider decluttering.
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I like wat u say…(if i am motivated enuf to organize the sale):)
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I lost my mother nine years ago, and at the time was really attached to everything she owned…especially her clothes. But she was bigger than me so a lot of her things didn’t even fit. I thought i would alter her clothes…and some of them I did, and i wore those things…but there was still a couple bags of things i held on to..thinking I would alter them later…I moved a couple times, dragging these bags with me…finally it hit me, I don’t like these clothes, will never wear them, and really, its my mother I’m hanging on to, not her clothes. I thought I would send them to my aunt or my sister…but it just never seemed to happen. I felt terribly guilty about giving them away. Finally it hit me, my mother wasn’t a hoarder, she wouldn’t have wanted me to hang on to something if it was a burden. So I gave the bags of clothes to charity. Somewhere, someone benefited from this action…and i did too! 🙂 If you have stuff that a deceased loved one left you with, and you don’t want it, do everyone a favor, including your loved one, and share it!! 🙂
Brilliant! I need these words ! 🙂 Thank you!
Love this post. Thanks for the tips.
I’ve been decluttering for years… How do you regain that motivation that just one day isn’t there anymore
I find the best thing to do is start small – just 10 minutes. The momentum will get you going. This will help: http://www.getorganizedwizard.com/blog/2011/07/3-great-reasons-to-start-today/ Good luck Debbie!
We start tomorrow! Pedro is coming .. YAY !!!!! and thanks for being here.
I actually started last week. BUT I have come to that point of what to do with it. I have given away as much as I can to friends (they have children who can wear my girls clothes) and now all of it sits in the hallway. My husband had an idea, he pulled his small lawn mower trailer into our garage and told me to put everything on it. So today after church we are planning on carrying things out to the garage and putting it on the trailer. I believe his thinking is once it is on the trailer he can take it somewhere! 🙂 I feels so good to declutter!
It does indeed – great work Penny!
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Great advice
What a great concept. I started today!
I love those words Betty – ‘I started today!’ Absolutely wonderful!!
I love those words Betty – ‘I started today!’ Absolutely wonderful!!
This is right on the mark. I have researched how to deal with clearing out my parents home. Your tips are what I have learned as well. Especially the part about is it worth your time to organize and sell. I have tried this with limited success. My parents lived in their home since 1957 and didn’t get rid of much. I moved here after selling my home into thier full house. I am moving now and find the reinforcement of your tips give me peace now that I am at the place where what’s left gets donated. I can’t “Afford” the time and stress of trying to figure out what to do with everthing. As you can immagine the last 4 years of sorting through my family treasures has been agonizing. Thanks for your great support.
It’s such a pleasure, Cynthia. It’s easy to forget about the time, energy, and stress of trying to sell things but these are REAL costs! Especially in today’s crazy world, peace, happiness, and love are gifts to be treasured. I wish you well!
It’s such a pleasure, Cynthia. It’s easy to forget about the time, energy, and stress of trying to sell things but these are REAL costs! Especially in today’s crazy world, peace, happiness, and love are gifts to be treasured. I wish you well!
Thanks Michele
Michele, this article is right on! I have tons of stuff that I’ve held onto thinking I should have a garage sale, sell on Craig’s List, or take to a consignment shop. It never happens, which tells me I really don’t need the money all that badly. Changing my mindset to “just get it out of my house” was liberating.
Also, I used to agonize over who should get the stuff I donate. This charity or that charity? Well, I finally came to the conclusion that it doesn’t matter. What a concept! If another child can benefit from something I donate to a charity, then what difference does it make if that child’s parents shop at thrift store #1 or thrift store #2?
There is a local thrift store in my town where the state gives a dollar-for-dollar tax credit (not a deduction, a credit) on state tax returns. So I take everything there until I’ve maxed ot the credit for the year, which is just as much as I would earn selling that stuff at a garage sale but without the hassle. Once my donations exceed the maximum amount of tax credit allowed, future donations go to the most convenient thrift store that is just down the street less than a mile.
How fantastic Susan! I’m so glad you feel liberated the get the stuff out of your house because that’s going to make you feel so good! And this strategy sounds like a very smart one. Yay!!
How fantastic Susan! I’m so glad you feel liberated the get the stuff out of your house because that’s going to make you feel so good! And this strategy sounds like a very smart one. Yay!!
The point about organizing the sale has been the roadblock for me! My youngest is 3 1/2 and I have tons of baby stuff. I kept thinking I would do a garage sale or something, but with the kids and two jobs I did a reality check and it probably isn’t going to happen! So one day I just started boxing up like sizes of clothes, and if I don’t have a friend that I can pass to, I donate. What a relief!
It IS a relief! 🙂
It IS a relief! 🙂
Excellent article, to the point! Very helpful, thanks!
Thanks Lupita! 🙂