Yep I’m serious. There’s a way to stop ‘procrastinating’.
How? Well, I’m going to suggest there’s no such thing as procrastination. I mean yes, there’s a word and a set of associations that go with it.
But I’m suggesting that by treating it as a meaningful phenomenon like it’s some deep-seated childhood trauma or pervasive psycho-sexual dysfunction, we give it more power than it deserves.
I’m suggesting that the idea of a problem beneath the label doesn’t serve you.
The Procrastination Label
Let’s say there’s something you want to do.
You want to start on a project. Work on a task. Declutter your house. Organize your office. Clean out your closet.
Well, why don’t you?
Oh I really struggle with procrastination.
Oh I have so many goals but my problem is procrastination.
Oh my life would be so different if I could just break through this procrastination.
Here’s the real why. It’s actually way less complicated than that whole procrastination palaver.
Procrastination And Physics
You don’t start because starting is hard.
In fact starting is so hard, it’s a law of science:
An object at rest continues at rest unless acted upon by a force.
You are that object and to move from rest to motion takes work.
Interestingly, as we all know from our own experience, once you start, continuing is not so bad. Or to add on the second part of Newton’s First Law:
An object in motion remains in motion unless acted upon by a force.
Once you’ve started, it’s easy to keep going. Often you wonder why you waited so long to begin.
Never ‘Procrastinate’ Again
I try to avoid labels*. Like many labels, procrastination doesn’t serve you. It gives a simple reality a complicated mythology. It allows for endless navel-gazing and psycho(over)analysis, when all you really need may be to acknowledge that, you know what? Starting is hard.
*Except the ones I make with my label maker. I LOVE those.
So here’s my suggestion. Don’t use the procrastination label. Don’t imbue your simple, natural resistance to starting with mystical powers. Make like MC Hammer and break it down to the basic reality: the fact that starting is hard.
When you strip it down to this level, you’re left with two simple options:
- Decide that starting is too hard right now, and make the choice to postpone. Don’t beat yourself up – just recognize that you’re making a choice and take responsibility for it. You’re no longer procrastinating; you’re now making a decision. Own it, baby.
- Decide that starting is worth the effort, and begin. Feel great about the fact that starting is hard, much of the time and for most people, and yet you’ve pushed through. Yay!
The Label Can Make You Feel Like A Victim
By seeing your choices this way, you’ll never ‘procrastinate’ again.
By abandoning the very idea of procrastination you’ll reduce every choice to this: starting is hard – will I start?
You’ll be no worse off than when you called it procrastination, but you’ll be free of self-serving stories and justifications. You’ll no longer be a victim of some perverse affliction. You’ll be empowered to make a simple choice.
And when you look at it that simply, when your choice is that clear – you may choose differently.
Are You Ready To Abandon ‘Procrastination’ Forever?
What do you think?
Will you try abandoning the procrastination label?
Let me know if it makes a difference!
Wow, Michele, an innovative and simple way to look at it. I hope by reframing the issue like this, I get off my butt and get more done! How can i share this on my Facebook page?
Thank you for sharing Adrienne! You can copy the link and paste it into your status – Facebook will generate a preview automatically. You’ll see the preview before you post. ♡
Most of the issues I have had over the past few years I have not been able to label or clearly find a reason why I could not just start to take action on anything. I started self help reading and stumbled across your site and realised that the dreaded “P” word was the the underlying issue to everything. Your programs really resonated with me as they were in easy and manageable chunks and actually talked in my language! So I thought I have nothing to lose and started working through some of your programs and the feeling of empowerment has been unbelievable and really gave me the “get up and go” to follow on to the next program. I actually look forward to the next days item to have to do and feel like Michele is my personal self-help coach. The “P” word reading will be very interesting and I’m sure I will find more “keys to the door”.
Thank you for this lovely comment Natalie! It’s people like you that make me so happy to have this job. 🙂
I do usually find it hard to start, and also hard to quit. But, I’m getting to it, thanks for the inspiration!
LOL Tony – you’re a typical ‘object’!! My pleasure. 🙂
Your so right.There is a name a phobia a syndrome a mental disorder and an excuse for everything these days.Thankyou thats just the kick in the but I needed to get off my lazy widening backside and just do it.XOXOXOXO
lovin this…today I will, or I will not, do stuff, but not doing will be a conscious choice.
LOL Teresa – my pleasure! 🙂
LOL Teresa – my pleasure! 🙂
My friends always say just DO something. When I get overwhelmed by all I SHOULD be doing but get paralyzed by thinking of it all I shut down and do nothing. Good way to trick brain and just DO SOMETHING.
Tricking the brain is a good strategy. And choosing small, easy things is a great way to do that. You might also like this Lee Ann:
http://www.getorganizedwizard.com/blog/2010/10/get-organized-fast-7-things-you-can-do-this-weekend/
This is great! I think your analysis would apply to a few other labels we use in our society. Victims are powerless to change what isn’t working for them, while recognizing we all have choices puts the power to change right back within our control! Obviously, for some things we may need a little help, but I agree that we are the powerhouse of change in our own lives.
Very true Karen. Any label that puts you at the mercy of something outside yourself takes away your power. And it’s just a word! Pfft!!
Very true Karen. Any label that puts you at the mercy of something outside yourself takes away your power. And it’s just a word! Pfft!!
I’m in the middle of a massive purge because we decided to move. I’m promising myself that I will live a simpler life going forward. Starting is hard but it’s never too late to start! I’m on my way!
A move is such a great incentive to simplify and declutter, Beth!
PS If you need help you’ll find heaps of tips on my blog and some programs in my shop.
This is in line with my “5 minute cleanup” I have practiced for years. Because I don’t enjoy housework, I commit to 5 minutes, then if I’m into it, I extend it another 5 minutes, but I allow myself to stop at the end of any 5 minute segment, without guilt. I started a big organizational project last weekend, and gave myself permission to work on it in segments. That way, each segment is a success, and I’m moving towards the big goal. I love the lack of guilt! Thank you for your down-to-earth approach to organizing our lives!
Nice, maybe I’ll start this….tomorrow 😉
All right, Miss Scarlet!
Exactly Carole. If you’ve done any of my programs you know that I do EVERYTHING in small chunks. And with no guilt!
Exactly Carole. If you’ve done any of my programs you know that I do EVERYTHING in small chunks. And with no guilt!
Starting is the most difficult thing if you’re already at rest, isn’t it?
I don’t know that I’ve ever accepted the “procrastination” label, but I do know that I sometimes have a difficult time knowing the difference between “lazy” and “tired”.
Once you start, you’ll know Lori. Tired makes it hard to continue. Lazy gets forgotten once you’re into it.
Once you start, you’ll know Lori. Tired makes it hard to continue. Lazy gets forgotten once you’re into it.
Reminds me of Yoda’s “Do or do not. There is no try.”
I love the way you defined procrastination, or the lack thereof. Thanks for sharing!
Like that…
I like the idea of abandoning the dreaded “p” word. As I read this I thought about my 5K training program. I just did my last training for week 8 today. When I started jogging this morning it seemed really difficult for some reason, but I was determined to keep going. I finished my 28 minute jog. I was so proud of myself for starting and finishing my workout. The training progrm is 9 weeks–I am only one week away from completing it. If I had not started it I would not be where I am today. Starting was hard, but it was so worth the effort!
Thanks for posting this and for giving us an opportunity to abandon that label. I am going to apply this to other areas of my life where I want the same success that I am having with my 5K training. There are some areas that I need to hold off on and others that I need to get started with–no more feeling guilty or like a failure due to that dreaded “p” word! Woohoo!
Guilt doesn’t serve us – honesty is so much more empowering. Good luck Lora!
Guilt doesn’t serve us – honesty is so much more empowering. Good luck Lora!
Makes me think of that song by Rush called Freewill; a line from it says “if you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice”. So, we just need to “choose” to do or not to do whatever it is and own it. So if we decide not to do whatever project, we can at least feel good about having made a “choice” not to do it as you said, putting a positive turn on the situation and positive is always good, right?
I love that line Leslie! I think when we recognize that we’re making a decision, we free ourselves to choose more honestly.
I love that line Leslie! I think when we recognize that we’re making a decision, we free ourselves to choose more honestly.
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Sure does, no such word as procrastination in my dictionary. I have a choice.
Start by just standing up, now take a step, now another, you have started something. Try it.
Like incubation.
Love this idea! So freeing!
Wow! Just one sentence that speaks so clearly to me. Time to clear out the books about procrastination cluttering up my shelf.
LOL Jenn – once you see it. you can’t un-see it. 🙂
Great way to look at it – just start – even if it’s just one little step – then the next etc. Or decide to hold off – and sometimes that’s the right thing to do. Sometimes we do just need a bit more time or to get other stuff bedded down first. Flogging ourselves with guilt & labels is the least productive thing. I wrote a blog post called ‘Procrastination or Incubation?’ a couple weeks ago, so this ties in well. Thanks Michele!
Very true Miriam – guilt is a distraction that takes us FURTHER away from action.
Zowie! I’d never thought of it in those terms. Really makes it quite black-n-white, doesn’t it? Start, don’t start — but for goodness sakes, pick one! lolz… next time I contemplate a project, this will be floating around in the back of my mind. Thanks for the kick in the rear! 🙂
We trick ourselves with those labels, don’t we? Hope you have a productive day!! 🙂